My Hair Isn't Long and Gray Anymore! The Magical Power of Facing Your Fears. Plus, A Hair Product, Nail Polish and Lipstick Review!

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Well....

I've gone and done it! Yes I have! I absolutely can not believe it but I finally went and had my first real haircut since this whole gray hair adventure began back in AUGUST OF 2011. I've had tiny trims along the way, and then a normal sized trim last year, but never a true haircut.

(This is the longest my hair has been since I stopped coloring. This picture was taken in March of 2014. I stopped dying my hair in June of 2011, so it took just over three years to go from gray roots to a pixie cut in August 2011 to this length. )

I'm still a little shocked that I let go of my attachment to the (self-imposed) thought that I personally HAD to have LONG gray hair to look and feel pretty and to not age myself even more. But when I truly think about it, taking the leap to cut my hair and to not "hide" behind the false security of long hair equalling youthfulness, it's the same thing as when I said: "Oh forget it!" and stopped coloring my hair!

Ok, so going gray is probably a little more scary to most than cutting one's hair, but still, I was able to push past one of my limiting beliefs last week when I once again realized that IT'S ONLY HAIR AND IT'S OK! 

Would I rather have long, luxurious flowing locks? SURE! Absolutely. I know though, that my hair only looked like the picture above one time, and that was for the twenty minutes after I had left the salon and gotten home to take a photo. Then the curls slowly fell out and through the day my hair began to puff up and frizz. 

Soon my old ends were yellowing and no amount of purple shampoo or clarifying shampoo could get the brassiness out and that's not even thinking about the split ends. Nothing short of a trim could truly remedy things.

Even with trims, as soon as March would creep in with rain, I'd be putting my unruly hair back in a ponytail as ten drops of water would make it go PUFF! And then as the temperatures (and humidity) would rise, I'd find myself with little options but the ponytail, straight through to August and even September. 

I love styling my hair. I love curlers and rollers and hair products and braids and barrettes, but this alone was not enough to make my long, prone to frizz and BADLY overdue for a cut hair worth the battle.

And so, it popped into my head last month that maybe....just maybe.... I should have my hair cut into a bob for the summer. Something to get the old, old, yellowed and split ends off. Something that would be cooler in the summer heat, something that took less time to coax into a "look." A cut that was polished, something that I've almost never had and kind of wanted!

I found a haircut on the internet, a picture of Christina Hendricks from Mad Men in a long, tousled bob and I thought: "Wow! She makes that length look fun and interesting." I know I'd never look like Christina or Christina's hair for that matter, (I AM practical sometimes) but it gave me some haircut courage.

For the next week, I went back and forth, back and forth, trying to decide if I should cut my hair or not. I just couldn't make up my mind. One day I'd think I'm going to do this! And then the next day, I'd be completely resolved to keep my hair! 

That was until...and I'm sort of embarrassed to admit this, I saw a video on Buzzfeed. It was called "Powerful Hair Makeovers That Transform People's Lives." You can watch it below. It wasn't so much that I saw one of these makeovers and was inspired to copy their look, it's that I was reminded that we as human beings find comfort and safety in what we know. You're not going to know at the beginning that you with gray hair will be TOTALLY fine in the end. And I didn't realize at first that it didn't matter if I cut my hair shorter, that I'd look FINE and if I didn't like it, it would grow back. What I failed to remember is that sometimes jumping out of our box and into the new unknown can be so incredibly rewarding! So I watched the video and then went to have my hair cut the next day.

The reason that I haven't posted photos yet, is because I'm still learning how to make this haircut look good and the look changes everyday depending on how I blow-dry and style it. I've been waiting until I've got things just right, but now I've come to think that this is a learning process and there's no use hiding away until I find my look.

So here it is, my new haircut. :)

I like it. I miss my long hair, but I truly like it. What I love the most is that I challenged my belief that I wouldn't be pretty or feminine without long hair, just like I challenged my belief that I wouldn't be ok without dying my grays. 

Remember this my newbie Silver Sisters, and I'll keep reminding myself too. 

And see, it does look different everyday. This was straight from the salon. Playing with my new haircut is fun! (I have not tried the 'Christina' look yet, but will soon)!

So when all has been said and done, I can say that I was super scared, but I've been left with softer, more manageable, less yellow-y-ended hair. It's soooo much nicer in the heat and I feel a bit more grown up, a little more polished. I'm so glad that I took the leap. \(^-^)/ 

And that my friends is the hair scoop!

I have three new hair and beauty products to tell you about. None of these products are sponsored, I just came across them since last blogging and SWOON!!!!

The first one is Paul Mitchell Super Clean Flexible Style Finishing Spray . I learned about this hair spray/ finishing spray from my hair stylist Lydia. I asked her to recommend a product that I could use to give my hair volume and hold and that would deal with flyways. She said that her favorite hands-down was this Paul Mitchell spray because it never builds up. You can use it days in a row and your hair never gets hard or sticky. This is REALLY GOOD for us white-hair gals because it seems like that might mean there is less product to turn yellow.

So far I've used it everyday. I live how this finishing spray holds down most of my sticky-uppy hairs and it helps to keep my hair curled and styled in the "shape"that I want it to be in. I've never ever been one to use hair spray regularly and I still am tiny bit wary because it's not "natural", but I have to say, even if I only use it on special days, this finishing spray has been a game changer for me!

The nest two items that I want to tell you about were inspired by my on-going fondness for the Mad Men series and the mini-shopping spree for them was probably spurred by my sorrow over the show ending this week. (Hold on, I need to go sob).

This is the truth, honestly, other than maybe The Curse of Oak Island on the History Channel, there have been about zero television programs that I have followed and watched regularly in about a decade. I like watching shows here and there on Netflix and Hulu, but I'm not a big television person except for Mad Men. There would be seasons when the adulterous antics of Don Draper or the cold cruelty of Betty would just make me angry, but I kept coming back, time and time again on Sunday nights, to see the sets and the costumes and to imagine that I knew more of a time back then. 1960 -1970. Which, I've never lived in, so I know only what I do through books and movies and Nick at Night reruns. 

I liked Betty's nails and her lipstick colors. They remind me of colors that I imagine my Grandmother or  Jon's Bubby wore in the 50's. Coral colored nails, THAT'S what I want!

My Grandma gives me her old copies of  Good House Keeping Magazine after she reads them. (Isn't that cute)? Just the other day I received one, and  Sally Hansen Miracle Gel nail polish was written up in it as one of 2015's best, new beauty products. They said it was similar to a gel manicure, minus the UV light. You're left with a longer lasting, chip-resistant manicure.

Recently I've gotten into painting my nails for some reason. So when I saw this, I was intrigued and thought it was worth a shot. I chose Sally Hansen Miracle Gel in Malibu Peach because I thought it looked closest to that coral color I wanted to find! 

Now, just ignore my totally poor manicure skills. The cuticles, the unevenness.... the color is the point to pay attention to. So, two coats went on and it's pretty opaque, but not 100% and I didn't quite get that, but I still really liked the quirky color, but NOW I GET IT.......

DOH! No WONDER the display said TWO STEP and showed a picture of a nail polish bottle AND a black bottle....... You need to also purchase the Sally Hansen Miracle Gel Top Coat !!! I guess I totally missed step #2 in a two-part process!!! While I did use my own top coat, now I'm seeing online that the special gel top coat must make the color look shiny like a gel manicure. So, I'm going to have to try that soon, now don't I? Lol. I feel silly, but at least I'm rocking fairly opaque peach nails. Ha!

And finally, I know.... I know I am obsessed with these Burt's Bees Lip Crayon's. I have four now, but they are the BEST natural, drugstore bought lipsticks that I have found, and in fact, eco or not, department store or drugstore, they're some of my favorite lipsticks that I own! So, in the past I've talked about these lip crayons in the perfectly pink nude, "Sedona Sands" , the pale, icy pink, "Carolina Coast" and the bright, rosy color "Hawaiian Smolder." Now I have a Burt's Bees Lip Crayon in Niagara Overlook, probably my most favorite color of all!!!! \(^-^)/ Here is how I would describe it....it looks a little less pink than these pictures that I see here. (Sorry, I tried). Niagara Overlook is closest to my Hawaiian Smolder, but less pinky, more red. It's not completely opaque, but also not sheer. Niagara Overlook is soft, not over-powering. Think of a rose lipstick with a hint of red and a bit of shine. I love it!!! :)

Oh my gosh, Phew! And that's that! Now I have to run, it's time for bed and my fingers have been pecking away at this keyboard all night! :)

Until next time, know that I believe in your so much, and that gray hair or new haircut or anything else for that matter, whatever you set your mind to, YOU CAN TRULY DO IT!

 \(^-^)/

xoxoxoxoxo,

Lauren

A Picture Worth A Thousand Words. (I'll Spare You Most of the Words.)

Ready. Set. GO!

Hi friends! The past week. It's been sooooo busy. 

(I know that is what I always say, but this time, this time  I REALLY mean it!)  ;)

School is ending in less than a week! We've had lots of end-of-the-year parties and birthday parties and jump rope performances and potlucks and playdates and swimming events and ceremonies. Such excitement leaves less time to write about it.

At any rate.................. here are the highlights in a nutshell.........................

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UPDATE! Sorry, I typed the above a week ago, so I guess it's been a very busy TWO weeks! School is OUT! It's officially SUMMER around here guys! WOO HOO!!!!! Here's what's been going on..............

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UPDATE! Sorry, I typed the above a week ago. Lol. 

Ok, here's what I've deduced: Sometimes life is too busy to blog. The end. 

We've been keeping busy and enjoying summer. Noah starts day camp next week, so then I'll start to have a little more of my usual blogging time.

In the mean time, I will attempt once again to share what we've been up to! (And this is only the first picture post. I started a second one already. I've been slowly working on both.)

Thanks to my two sweet, wonderful friends for checking in on me after this long, blog silence. They just wanted to make sure I was ok, and I appreciate their caring so so much. I love you guys! :) 

Hector had a good week, because he's Hector.

Willow had a week of wistful food staring because she's Willow.

And in other cat news, I actually called a pet sitting service for a first consultation!!! I can't believe it. Do you know how reluctant I've been to leave the cats since Willow came to live with us nearly two years ago? At first I worried about Willow's anxiety, and that fact that she is stuck to me like glue, but then I didn't want to leave them because of Priya's health issues. It was just really difficult to think of traveling without them.  It still is, but it's time.

The owner of the pet sitting service came over. She was great. Her business sounds very professional and caring. Now I just need to plan a vacation!

Moving on........I was determined to make The Pioneer Woman's recipe for iced coffee again this year.  Cool iced coffee, just as it's warming up again outside is just Perfect! It actually got up to 85 degree last week! First though, I tried out a new recipe for homemade sweetened and condescend milk. The Pioneer Woman recommends the store bought version for the iced coffee, but I wanted to make my own organic and high-fructose-free version. I LOVED THIS simple recipe from Kitchen Stewardship, that I found on Pinterest.

Basically you stir milk and cane sugar until it's combined, then you simmer it on low for about an hour and a half, (stir often!) You'll eventually find yourself with the most beautiful, thick, golden syrup. Then add in a bit of butter and some vanilla extract and you're done! I tripled the recipe and made it in a bit pot, in hopes that refrigerated, it'll last a long time. My batch filled a ball jar about 2/3 of the way. It is AMAZING, and a little goes a long way to both sweeten and make your coffee, (hot or cold), creamy! Oh, just so you know, by refrigerating my sweetened and condensed milk, it hardens everything a bit. That's the only issue. The syrup melts wonderfully in hot coffee, and you just need to do some extra stirring for the cold drink.

Then it was time to make the iced coffee! Cold press! This time around I let the coffee sit for about 18 hours. Overnight works fine. It turned out bold and flavorful. The only sad thing was, I didn't have room this time in the fridge for my big, glass dispenser. I quickly realized that the coffee wouldn't stay good very long if it wasn't refrigerated. :(

It was sad. I am going to start experimenting with small batches. It's just a lot of fun and iced coffee is a great summer drink!

Maybe only I find this amusing because I'm his Mother, but Noah excitedly called us into his room one night, right before bedtime. "Mom! I made a pod". I'm flying business class!" You'll get what I mean if you've ever seen those fancy business class divider pods that Delta has on international flights. I wish somebody would send me on a trip in a pod too!

Noah spent another weekend up north. This is what northern Michigan is about a lot of the time....bears made out of wood.

This is Noah's bedroom in the little cottage by the lake. Isn't this so sweet and vintage!? The house was built in the mid-1950's and still has it's original pine wood walls. My Mom sent me this picture to show that Noah had made his bed so nicely. Now if only I can get him to do this at home.....

While playing on the beach Noah looked up into one of the trees and thought that he saw a "giant squirrel!" (Lol.) He call my Mom over, and that's when she realized that it was a BALD EAGLE! A BALD EAGLE!!!! Isn't that so cool!!!! My Mom was able to snap this shot, just as he flew off. Amazing......

I know that I've made these before, but this is my favorite playdate snack.... a bunch of things in a cupcake tray. Kids love it. This is a mixture of crackers, cheese, raspberries, granola, jelly beans and seaweed. Just use whatever you have in the house. It's a lot of fun! In the past, if I really wanted Noah to eat, sometimes I'd fill a half tray with real "meal" foods, and he'd eat most or all of it every time!

It's a nice, little tool to have, especially with younger children.

On Sunday, three Sundays ago,  my Dad came through town on his way to New York. We walked over to our local farmer's market. I just wanted to share the handmade ice pop that Jon purchased from Detriot Lix's stand. Detroit Lix makes a WONDERFUL, delicious array of frozen ice pops. This one was coconut pistachio. It was fantastic! :)

Noah has his first shaved ice with syrup. That's a new stand this year, with a rainbow of colors and flavors.

Then we went to the village fair. This was the 51st annual fair for our town. Each year, in the beginning of June, the carnival rolls in and sets up their rides and games and food booths in the middle of the city. It's just two block from our front door! That makes for a fun + very loud weekend. The fair brings in huge crowds. It's funny because you can hear all of the screams of the adults and the kids on the rides, from our bedroom window at night. You couldn't pay me enough to get on some of those upside down attractions. I'd be screaming too!

Since Noah finally made it past the 48" mark this year, (by a hair) he is now able to go on some of the larger rides. I thought that he's be super excited, and begging to try them out. At first he was, but them when we got there, he became a little unsure. Honestly though, whether this is right or wrong of me, I was a little relieved. Something about a giant Ferris wheel that is put up and taken down over and over with each week, and the crazy, whirling thing that goes up in the air, they just make me feel a bit uneasy. So, when Noah was ok with the kiddie rides, I was ok with it too. 

This though. This was hilarious. They chose the pink spinning bear and it made me so HAPPY!!!!

He asked to ride the "Flying Firetruck" twice.

The one new event this year though, was that Noah could drive the bumper cars all by himself! He was beyond thrilled, and I was super excited for him too. Go Noah! :)

And this...... he was really into the mini-roller coaster. Especially when he got the front seat......

For some reason, the hands stayed up the entire time..............

This past week the last week before school ended, has been very productive out of necessity. There's just so much to get done. I LOVE nothing more than getting things done and keeping busy. If I stopped, I'd never start up again. I do take mini breaks though. The other day I realized that it had been hours since I slowed down, so I walked into the backyard for a minute to enjoy the view, and see how the Wisteria vine was doing. That's the big, old green vine that is sitting on top of the pergola to the left. It suddenly grew leaves this week! I snapped this picture and thought it was funny because it sums up my DREAM life. Just to lounge. But the reality is, I'm much much to antsy to ever lounge. I literally do not have it in me! It's a terrible thing, but I don't know how to relax anymore. I can't. I can't even make it through one television program without doing at least one or two other things at the same time. This summer I'm going to practice not always being so intense. It's healthy to relax sometimes. I need to work on it for my health and my sanity!

Also seen in the backyard this week.....George the duck at take-off.

You know, maybe I was wrong. There is one thing that I do that can be sort of relaxing, it's exercising. I love  like to go power walking as fast as I can around the neighborhood or on my hill. I listen to music while I walk, so it's only doing two things at once. The weather has been great, so I've been walking over to the upper school campus of Noah's school, where a shuttle bus brings him from the lower campus. It's about a 7/10th of a mile walk. Is that how you write it? So, the round trip is roughly a mile and a half. Every little bit of walking helps. Noah loves walking home too. It's great! This day it was super sunny and humid and in the mid-80's!

Oh! Something so exciting!!! I was really happy to see that Teddy the whistle pig is BACK! The furry groundhog made his appearance this week, and even came up on the back deck! He took one sniff of the cat food for the feral cats and ran away. It was kind of funny. The cat food freaked him out or something.

We went to a double birthday party for our friend's kids. It is a big, annual party that they throw in their backyard, complete with BBQ, beer and a bounce house. And two more B's.....bug bites.

Anyway, each year I wait sooooooooooo patiently for the last of the guests to leave, (usually around 10:00 or later) and then I hit the bounce house. It's the highlight of May for me. This year, I launched myself into an awesome swan dive, directly into JON'S KNEECAP. And that's where I got this black eye. In a bounce house. Those things are dangerous!

I made a Mediterranean quiche. I think this is one of my favorite quiches that I've ever made! HERE is the recipe. I added in some chopped onion and a little bit of sliced cherry tomatoes for the top. The rest was spinach and feta cheese. Yum!

I made a recent make up purchase that I wanted to share because I've been pretty happy with this product so far. It's Jane Iredale's Glow Time BB Cream.  I had mentioned to a friend of mine, who is also into using the most natural products possible, that I've been seeking out a new, parabene-free foundation. I don't usually wear foundation, but when I want to get a bit more done up, I'd like something that is healthy for me!

This BB cream is wonderful, it's moisturizing, carries a mineral SPF of 25, and it does a great job of evening out my skin tone. Especially for a BB cream, it has quite the coverage! A little goes a long way too. Click on the link below to learn more!

Jane Iredale Glow Time Full Coverage BB Cream

Remember the ducks in our mini-pool? We all thought they were so cute and sweet, but they're making a MESS of the pool. :(  They have mistaken the pool and the patio for their own, private bathroom. It can't be too healthy. Also, we have the feral cats who still sometimes stop by, and hawks, so I worry about them sitting out in the open all day. Jon bought a pair of plastic owls to deter them from possibly nesting next to the pool. Here's Willow meeting them......

And you know what happened next?

Yep. They loved the owls, and slept next to them all day. In the end, we figured out that floating a pink pool toy in the water would kept them away. Who would have thought!? I was really sad to see them go, but their real home is the beautiful, quiet, protected river behind our house. I think that's much safer for them. And our pool!

I just liked how Willow looked here.

And this picture.......

We had so many school events as the year wound down. There was a class potluck/swim party, a graduation ceremony (from "stage 3." which is our 2nd/3rd grade), a big birthday party, a field trip, and a going away party for a very special, sweet family in Noah's class. We lit paper lanterns and released them into the evening sky with wishes for this family. I'll always remember this.

Poor Jon. He's ok now, but the other week he was making a new recipe. It was some kind of marinated chicken that you needed to first sear on the grill, and then it cooks in the oven, in a heavy pot! Being that we never put pots in the oven, Jon forgot that the pot handles were going to be super hot when he took it out. It was so sad. Jon received 2nd degree burns all over his fingers and palm. I felt terrible for him. We went to the doctor, where they gave him a prescription burn cream and bandaged his hand all up. He had to wear it like this for a few days. Luckily, now everything is almost healed. 

My mother and father-in-law came to visit two Sundays ago. It was a lovely afternoon! One of the things that we did was go to the farmer's market. (I should have gotten more pictures. We all ended up squinting in the few that I took because it was so bright out there!) Here is one though, with Noah and his rainbow shaved ice. He's all about the shaved ice booth now.

Making Thank You cards for teachers.

Oops! An out of order, tangent-like picture! I haven't worked a ton on my crocheted laptop cozy, but it's coming along little by little. :)

Last day of school!!!!!! 

Fourth grade, here I come!

This was the graduation ceremony. We call it "Clap Out." Noah was so happy! All of the stage 3. parents (parents of 2nd. and 3rd. graders), line the long stairs and walkway towards the stage 4. buildings. They house 4th and 5th grade. The stage 3. graduates run through this tunnel of people and we all cheer and clap and give high-fives. It was great! :)

Look! I saw a House Finch at my feeder! I don't see them very often, but when I do, I love it! I also saw a Baltimore Oriel at the feeder this week. WOO HOO!!!!

One of the things that Noah and I are doing this week, are activities from......

Little Acorn Learning's Midsummer Festival Book!

Check it out, Little Acorn has so many great activity and enrichment guides and books available. I love their stories, poems, songs, recipes and crafts. Summer is meant for fun!

And that my friends, is just some of what we've been up to. More to come soon!

Until then, have a GREAT START TO THE SUMMER!!!!

xoxoxoxoxo,

Lauren :)